LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Life is a journey, not a destination."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I'm diving into some great quotes from some famous authors of the past, and I've had a handful just jump out at me. Take a look at the past 2 quotes HERE, but today, Emersons quote just resonated.

Sometimes I am so focused on goals, plans, being strategic and getting stuff done that I forget that getting the list all checked off isn't always the most important thing. It's important, and I will continue to encourage people to "get stuff done", however when I only focus on my lists, I have the tendency to forget about what is going on around me. I'm so focused on getting the tasks done, that I miss opportunity for conversation, for deeper relationship and for enjoying where I'm at.

The quote reminds us that there is a balance between DOING and BEING, between CONTROLLING and LETTING GO, between PEACE and PURSUIT.

If you're like me, you miss some of the most important things.

Remember, it's a JOURNEY and the destination is important, but it's not the only thing.

Think about some of the things you might be missing because you're so focused on GETTING THERE that you're missing the experience of the JOURNEY?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Not all those who wander are lost." J.R.R. Tolkien

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

After last weeks quote from Shel Silverstein, I starting thinking about what some of my other favorite authors have said, and this one line, pulled from a longer quote from Tolkien is a great thought.

We tend to value production over experience. When we think of the word "wander" we assume it's because someone doesn't have anyplace to go, or I might use it as an excuse for being lost.

We don't value the idea of "wandering around" because this appears to meaningless.

The reality is that sometimes in our wandering, that's when we find something of value or importance. We find something that we would have missed had we been on an uninterrupted journey.

When was the last time you just "wandered" around? This can mean taking your time from point A to point B, or it can be wandering around without a destination? Can you remember?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Never explain what you do. It speaks for itself. You only muddle it by talking about it." Shel Silverstein

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Sometimes when I'm reading, I come across something that just causes me to STOP. It usually surprises me, and forces me to read it again.

Sometimes when I'm listening to a book or a podcast I STOP. I take a moment to listen to it again, or I write something down that was triggered.

The Silverstein quote above has just caused me to STOP and think about it. I'm trying to figure out what this looks like for me and my life.

Read the quote again. What is it saying to you? What is it causing you to contemplate?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Never underestimate the power of an encouraging word." John C Maxwell

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Last week I shared some words that were given to me from my dying uncle, words that really encouraged me and I simply mentioned how important words are. I received some great notes and comments, as well as notes of condolence and encouragement from many of you. Thank you for sharing those notes.

WORDS.

Maxwell said it above, "Never Underestimate...." but I often do. I let things fly out of my mouth without thinking, or I hold my thoughts in my head when I should be sharing something. It's a constant battle to use my words wisely, whether it's spoken or written words.

Here's some homework: This week, find ONE person to speak some encouraging words to, and do it! How did you feel? How did they respond? Be intentional with ONE.

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"You're doing good work Russ" Uncle Ray

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

This past week my Uncle passed away, rather suddenly and unexpectedly. Gina and I were on a vision trip in Guatemala when we got the word that his health was failing quickly. We decided to call his phone direct, hoping that he would answer, and after many rings Uncle Ray picked up the phone. We were able to say some things to him and share our love with him, and he said a few things back to us, then he said these words:

"You're doing good work Russ"

I had heard him say these words to me a couple of months ago when he participated in a Global Leadership Summit I was hosting in Atlanta. He coached a young leader from the Philippines, Jomar, and at the end of the week as we said goodbye he said to me:

"You're doing good work Russ"

Back in March I had no idea that these would be the last words I heard him say just a few months later.

The Power of Words.

Think about powerful words that have been spoken to you in your lifetime.... what was said and what was the context?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Doing less is not being lazy. Don't give in to a culture that values personal sacrifice over personal productivity." Tim Ferriss

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Have you ever asked someone how they're doing and their reply is simply:

"I'm really busy!"

When I hear that, sometimes I apologize for asking and forcing them to stop all the important things they're doing to answer me. Often they will then go into a list of all the things that they have going on.

I've succumbed to this response many times myself, and I try to fight against giving into it.

We believe that being busy makes us look or feel more important, when the reality is that it's the opposite.

When we're too busy, it often means that we don't know how to schedule or prioritize our lives. It means that we might have a difficult time saying NO, and it might mean that we choose to live in state of being constantly busy because we don't know how to slow down.

However, if you're busy doing the RIGHT THINGS, then that's OK, but I seldom find people that are super busy that are super healthy, however, there are exceptions.

Have you responded to people this way: "I'm busy"? What are you trying to communicate? What value do you find in being busy?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Nobody is too busy. If they care, they will make time." Unknown

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I read this quote a couple of weeks ago, and thought I would test it. Here's what I learned:

*Last week, I scheduled a busy day of appointments, calls and ended up driving all over Southern California, yet I was somehow able to squeeze a golf lesson (my first one ever) into the middle of that day. When I looked at my schedule for the day, that was something I wasn't willing to compromise.

*Finishing a busy week, I was pretty tired and on Saturday Morning, I took a little longer to get moving, however the prospect of having our kids come over for the weekend gave me energy, purpose and excitement.

*I had to cancel a meeting last week because I couldn't squeeze it into a full day, however after looking at it, I realized that it wasn't an "important or urgent" meeting, so I postponed it a couple of weeks.

The results of my test are that I do this all the time.

Life is about shuffling priorities, and it's true... I'm not too busy, I just choose where to spend my time based on what's important to me.

If you looked at your life, how would you test? Do you find yourself doing things that you shouldn't be doing or that aren't really important to you?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"You can play fast but not in a hurry. As a point guard, I can dictate that." Stephen Curry

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

I enjoyed watching the Golden State Warriors beat the Celtics in this years NBA Championship in the USA. I like basketball, and while I don't keep up with every team during the season, I do tune in to the playoffs.

This year I marveled at Steph Curry's leadership on the floor and on the team as they worked through the playoffs to eventually win. There's no doubt that Curry is a catalyst on the team, and his abilities are off the charts.

I came across this statement from him, and I've been thinking about it.

"You can play fast but not in a hurry."

There's something there that can apply to my life.

Curry and the Warriors at times were running full speed from end to end, and other times their play was slow and more intentional.

"You can play fast but not in a hurry."

What does that look like in my life? Life is fast, and it seems to be speeding up, but is my response "hurry"?

Look at your life: Would you say you live in a state of hurry? Do you feel busy all the time? Do you have a hard time catching up?