LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Success is usually the culmination of controlling failure" Sylvester Stallone

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

It's summer and I thought I would go a little "lighter" with some quotes over the next few months, and I'll continue with some thoughts from Rocky Balboa aka Sylvester Stallone this month.

The Sylvester Stallone story and the Rocky Balboa have some similarities in that both people didn't believe that either of these "characters" would succeed. People told Stallone for years that he would never make it as an actor, and the character of Balboa was a "down and out" fighter who no one believed in.

The story for both of them is a story of failure after failure that eventually leads to success, however that story isn't a simple story.

For Stallone, even after his break-out role as writer, director and lead actor in the film Rocky, he continued to have things fail and then he'd find success.

This quote is a really good reminder that most of us won't have a couple of failing moments followed by great success. Our story is usually a lot messier and we will continue to fail at things along the way, and that is OK.

The word Stallone uses in this quote it "controlling failure". I interpret that as "managing failure". We can't control everything that comes at us but we can manage our response, our attitude and how we allow these things to affect us.

Here's the truth: We will fail at times. All of us. This is how we learn, how we grow, how we adapt and how we move towards success.

Every once in a while there's the success story that comes out of nowhere when someone happens upon a crazy product or opportunity and it's a life-altering success story, but this isn't normal life for most of us.

For most of us, it's a journey of small success, repeated failure, and constant and steady growth that redefines how we define success.

What failure have you experienced in life and leadership that helped to shape you for success? Describe that...

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Life's not about how hard of a hit you can give... it's about how many you can take, and still keep moving forward." Rocky Balboa/Sylvester Stallone

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

It's summer and I thought I would go a little "lighter" with some quotes over the next few months, and I'll continue with some thoughts from Rocky Balboa aka Sylvester Stallone this month.

I remember watching the movie Rocky in 1976. It's a classic comeback movie, but I remember the people in the theatre cheering for this fighter as he came from nowhere to standing in the ring with the World Champion.

The classic Rocky theme was him just taking hit after hit. Sometimes he would even taunt his opponent to hit him again. His strategy was to just keep taking it and to stay in the fight one more round.

While boxing isn't my experience, the idea of facing obstacles and facing obstacles, yet to not give up and to keep going, that's a leadership theme.

Leadership is tough, and there are days and "seasons" where you feel that if you can just keep going a little longer, you'll get through everything that is coming at you.

I used to call them "seasons", but usually one season rolled into another season, and I realized it was just the way life and leadership worked..

However, fixing your eyes on something to keep you focused, keep you grounded, and to remind you of hope is critical to being able to get up time and time again, especially when it's the last thing you want to do.

What motivates you to keep going? To get up again after facing challenge after challenge? What is it?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Every champion was once a contender that refused to give up." Rocky Balboa/Sylvester Stallone

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

It's summer and I thought I would go a little "lighter" with some quotes over the next few months, and thought I'd start with some thoughts from Rocky Balboa aka Sylvester Stallone.

I remember watching the movie Rocky in 1976. It's a classic comeback movie, but I remember the people in the theatre cheering for this fighter as he came from nowhere to standing in the ring with the World Champion.

When I think of the Rocky franchise, the idea of never giving up is a part of every one of Stallone's stories. Each time, when everything was against him Rocky dug in and refused to give up.

I'm sure you remember the moment in each film when the music changes and we see the momentum shift, either during his training or during the actual fight. He's down and ready to just throw it all in, and he finds a way to come back, finds a way to turn things around.

This turn-around is what we all get excited about, whether it's a film or our real-life story.

I think the Rocky story is extra compelling when you learn about Sylvester Stallone's story and the way he was at the end, but he had this dream and he turned that into opportunity.

Think about a time in your life when you felt that you were done, then the music changed and you caught a second wind. What was it that really changed?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"If you want to make everyone happy, don't be a leader. Sell ice cream." Steve Jobs

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

This month I want to look at some words from the late Steve Jobs. While much of his life was focused on building Apple, he has a lot to say about leadership, culture and perseverance.

This final quote from Jobs this month is an appropriate one. Years ago, I read the biography of Jobs written by Walter Isaacson, Steve Jobs. In telling Jobs story, Isaacson also shares some of the tough things about Jobs.

Looking at the quote above, Jobs never tried to make people happy. He was relentless in his pursuit of his vision, and he often ran over and through people on his way forward.

The quote is a simple reminder to all of us as leaders: You won't make everyone happy, so don't try!

Leadership is difficult, and many times you're trying to serve, please, cater to and pay attention to the needs of those you're serving, yet if you're goal is making people happy, you'll never accomplish that which is the most important. You'll be distracted in your never-ending pursuit of people pleasing and this will make you ineffective.

This doesn't mean you have to lead like Jobs did. There can be a happy medium, but the challenge is still true: If your goal is making people happy, you're in the wrong seat!

While Steve Jobs was clearly focused on "perfection" in his pursuit of the perfect product for the world, some people loved working in that high pressure environment where everyone was focused on the vision and the task at hand, and they were willing to fight through the conflict to follow Jobs on this journey.

Others didn't want to work in that high-stress culture, and they jumped early.

Have you ever worked for someone who just wanted to make you happy? Who's sole purpose was to serve you? What was that like?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do." Steve Jobs

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

This month I want to look at some words from the late Steve Jobs. While much of his life was focused on building Apple, he has a lot to say about leadership, culture and perseverance.

Jobs was a disrupter.

Over the years, I've read a number of books on his life and leadership, and watched a couple of movies & documentaries on him, and they all tell the story of him as a disrupter.

He never liked people telling him that he couldn't do something, and when he got an idea in his head, he was relentless in his pursuit of it. While this characteristic was a difficult one to manage and work with, he was able to do things that no one ever dreamed were possible.

People called Jobs "crazy" in his pursuit of innovation and in his desire to impact the world, yet today, more than 2 billion people are actively engaged with Apple products.

Jobs believed that he and his company could change the world, and he lived his life in constant pursuit of that and even following his death in 2011, others continue to carry the vision that he began.

Changing the World. That's a crazy goal!

What would it take for you to believe that you can change the world? What are you doing about that?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"If you really look closely, most overnight successes took a long time." Steve Jobs

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

This month I want to look at some words from the late Steve Jobs. While much of his life was focused on building Apple, he has a lot to say about leadership, culture and perseverance.

I love this quote today from him.

In a world of instant communication, a world of comparison marketing and a world where we can say anything we want, it's pretty easy to jump to conclusions about someones journey or story.

On one hand, we assume that people are sharing the whole story, when they're really just sharing the highlights.

We also assume because they're we're only seeing the success side, that there wasn't any failure or struggle along the way.

Jobs quote is a reminder that there's no such thing as an overnight success. Most great stories are a part of a journey, and it takes work, dedication, perseverance, resilience and discipline to keep moving forward. It doesn't usually JUST HAPPEN.

I was recently talking with a young leader, and my challenge to him was to start small, build a working model, then scale it little by little, adjust along the way, and if it works, continue to grow it.

This is a pretty standard formula but in a day when people can achieve some quick success without much effort, we are often looking at the easy way to build something, not the best way to build something.

Think about something you built or created in your life and leadership... Take a moment to revisit the process you went through to see that thing grow and work.

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice." Steve Jobs

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

This month I want to look at some words from the late Steve Jobs. I'm an "Apple Guy"... there are Apple People and Non-Apple People, however I think there are some things that Jobs said and did that can potentially impact all of us.

This quote was so timely when I found it this past week.

We're living in a time of FEAR.

• We're afraid to share what we believe because it might offend someone else.

• We're afraid to have an opinion, so we remain quiet.

• We care, but we choose not to engage because of the noise.

Basically we're paralyzed because we're not sure what we should or shouldn't believe.

I love this quote from Steve Jobs, because he reminds us what is really important.

We are surrounded by noise... all kinds of noise. Some of the noise is really good noise, and some of it is just distracting.

I don't know about you, but sometimes when I go on a walk, I put my headphones in (Airpods) and instead of listening to a book, a podcast or music, I just enjoy the silence!

There is noise all around me. Often I leave a meeting to jump in my car and either make a phone call, or listen to my favorite radio station. I then will watch the news or a tv show at night, and many days the first thing I listen to in the morning in a news podcast.

I go from noise to noise constantly.

I'm not saying those things are necessarily bad, but to Jobs quote, sometimes the noise around me is louder than my own voice, or the Spirit who lives within me.

How would you define your life as it relates to noise? Are you operating at FULL VOLUME? 1 - 10?

LEADERSHIP QUOTE:

"Living in a constant state of balance is mostly impossible." Russ Cline

A LITTLE BIT DEEPER:

Well, I had a birthday milestone this month and turned 60 years old. I don't think it's that traumatic, however being whisked away to a beach in Mexico by my wife for a few days helped a lot!

60 Years.

This month, I want to share some things that I've learned over the years by sharing some interpretations of some great quotes. I realize that nothing is really new, we just share ideas in new and fresh ways and it cycles around again and again. There is still much to learn from these ideas that have been around for a long time, so I'm going to share my top 4 quotes/ideas that I keep coming back to over and over again.

I'm going to close this month with a simple thought on BALANCE.

For years, I learned how to "balance my life", or better yet, how to "strive for balance". I felt that if I could achieve a level of balance in my life, then all would be well. I then taught people about how to find balance in their lives.

Listen to these definitions of the word balance:

"An even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady"

"Keep or put (something) in a steady position so that it does not fall"

I don't know about you, but even though I've thought about balance in my life, I've dreamed about balance and I've worked towards balance, it's been mostly unsuccessful.

This doesn't mean that I'm out of control, it just means that if I'm going to define balance in my life, being "steady" is not the way I would define it.

My life has been a series of "living in the extremes". While this might sound bad, it's been an incredible ride!

Living in the extremes means:

• Moving from being busy to having rhythm

• Being disciplined in areas and being undisciplined

• Hitting goals and targets while sometimes failing

• Being emotionally full and energized to being drained

I don't know if you've experience this or not, but striving for balance in my life has been difficult if balance is defined as being STEADY.

How do you define balance in your life?